How long does this quiz take?

It takes about 2 to 3 minutes to complete.

Are my responses private?

Yes, we don't store any identifying data when you take this quiz.

Can I take this test more than once?

Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Will this quiz tell me how to fix my friendships?

This quiz is designed to build self awareness around your friendship style, not to diagnose problems or give prescriptive advice.

Can my results change over time?

Yes. Friendship styles can evolve as your life circumstances, priorities, and relationships change.

This psychology based friendship quiz reveals how you naturally show up in friendships, from leadership and emotional depth to loyalty and connection style.

Friendship Style Quiz

Discover the role you play in your friend group.

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | Last Updated: January 18, 2026

Friendships are not one size fits all. Some people lead, some listen, some bond through activity, and others through emotional depth. This quiz is designed to uncover your core friendship style based on how you initiate connection, handle vulnerability, and engage with groups versus one on one relationships. There are no good or bad results, only different ways of showing up for the people in your life.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this quiz take?: It takes about 2 to 3 minutes to complete.
Are my responses private?: Yes, we don't store any identifying data when you take this quiz.
Can I take this test more than once?: Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your Friendship Style Quiz results may have changed.
Will this quiz tell me how to fix my friendships?: This quiz is designed to build self awareness around your friendship style, not to diagnose problems or give prescriptive advice.
Can my results change over time?: Yes. Friendship styles can evolve as your life circumstances, priorities, and relationships change.

Friendship Style Archetype Quiz: Take The Test

Step 1: Rate Yourself On The Following Items

For each statement, indicate how much you agree on a scale of 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree). For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

1. I am usually the one texting first to organize plans rather than waiting to be invited.

2. I am comfortable discussing my fears, failures, and insecurities with my friends.

3. I prefer hanging out in a group of 4+ friends rather than just grabbing a drink with one friend.

4. I need to speak to my close friends at least once a week to feel connected to them.

5. When a friend is venting, my first instinct is to offer advice or a 'reality check' rather than just listen.

6. I am the one who remembers anniversaries, plans the traditions, and keeps old photos.

7. I enjoy learning about personality types and social dynamics.

8. I often reflect on how my relationships have changed over time.

Step 2: Enter Your Demographics

Provide your age and gender.

What is your age?

What is your gender?

Step 3: Submit Your Friendship Style Quiz Answers

After completing all questions, click below to get your results.

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for entertainment purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.