How long does this quiz take?

This quiz takes about three minutes to complete.

Are my responses private?

Yes, all answers are anonymized and confidential.

Can I take this test more than once?

Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Will this quiz diagnose relationship problems?

No. This quiz is a self-reflection tool designed to highlight emotional dynamics, not diagnose issues.

Can my results help improve my relationships?

Yes. Understanding emotional responsiveness can help you communicate needs more clearly and set healthier expectations.

Discover how emotionally seen, valued, and supported you feel by someone important in your life.

Perceived Responsiveness Scale

A science-inspired quiz that reveals how responsive others are to your emotional needs.

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | Last Updated: December 23, 2025

Reviewed by Jourdan Travers, LCSW

Feeling emotionally understood is a cornerstone of healthy relationships. This Emotional Responsiveness Test explores how well someone in your life listens, empathizes, and responds to your inner world. Rather than focusing on surface-level behavior, this quiz taps into whether you feel genuinely seen and valued.

Research shows that perceived responsiveness plays a powerful role in emotional closeness, trust, and long-term relationship satisfaction. When people feel emotionally attuned to, they’re more likely to feel secure and connected. If you’ve ever wondered why some relationships feel nourishing while others feel draining, responsiveness may be the missing piece.

This assessment pairs well with tools like the Relationship Satisfaction Scale and the Authenticity In Relationships Scale, which explore complementary aspects of emotional connection.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this quiz take?: This quiz takes about three minutes to complete.
Are my responses private?: Yes, all Perceived Responsiveness Scale answers are anonymized and confidential.
Can I take this test more than once?: Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your Perceived Responsiveness Scale results may have changed.
Will this quiz diagnose relationship problems?: No. This quiz is a self-reflection tool designed to highlight emotional dynamics, not diagnose issues.
Can my results help improve my relationships?: Yes. Understanding emotional responsiveness can help you communicate needs more clearly and set healthier expectations.

Emotional Responsiveness Test: Take The Quiz

Step 1: Rate Your Emotional Responsiveness Experience

For each statement, indicate how much you agree on a scale of 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree). For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

1. This person shows interest in my thoughts and feelings.

2. This person values my opinions and strengths.

3. I feel emotionally in sync with this person.

4. This person responds thoughtfully to my needs.

5. This person understands who I truly am beneath the surface.

6. This person accurately remembers important details about me.

7. This person accepts me, flaws included.

8. I feel deeply known by this person.

9. This person respects all aspects of who I am.

10. This person understands my emotions well.

11. This person genuinely listens when I speak.

12. This person shows encouragement and appreciation toward me.

13. This person makes me feel emotionally safe to be open and vulnerable with them.

Step 2: Enter Your Demographics

Provide your age, gender, region, and first name for a detailed report comparing your results to others.

What is your age?

What is your gender?

What region of the world do you live in?

What is your first name?

Step 3: Submit Your Perceived Responsiveness Scale Answers

After completing all questions, click below to send your responses to Mark Travers, Ph.D. All answers are anonymized and confidential.

References

Reis, H. T., Maniaci, M. R., Caprariello, P. A., Eastwick, P. W., & Finkel, E. J. (2011). Familiarity does indeed promote attraction in live interaction. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 101(3), 557–570.

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.