
Parentification Scale
Were you 'parentified' as a child? Take this test to find out.
By Mark Travers, Ph.D.
September 9, 2024

By Mark Travers, Ph.D.
September 9, 2024
Mark Travers, Ph.D., is the lead psychologist at Awake Therapy, responsible for new client intake and placement. Mark received his B.A. in psychology, magna cum laude, from Cornell University and his M.A. and Ph.D. from the University of Colorado Boulder. His academic research has been published in leading psychology journals and has been featured in The New York Times and The New Yorker, among other popular publications. He is a regular contributor for Forbes and Psychology Today, where he writes about psycho-educational topics such as happiness, relationships, personality, and life meaning. Click here to schedule an initial consultation with Mark or another member of the Awake Therapy team. Or, you can drop him a note here.
Parentification occurs when a child assumes roles typically held by a parent—either by providing emotional support or taking on responsibilities that are inappropriate for a child. This pressure can significantly influence a child's emotional development, leading to long-term impacts and adult trauma.
Adults who were parentified may become overly self-reliant or emotionally distant while also struggling with setting boundaries in relationships. In later years, this can lead to difficulties forming healthy attachments, resentment, low self-esteem and an overwhelming sense of responsibility in personal or professional life
The parentification scale offers a structured approach to evaluating emotional and practical forms of parentification, clearly assessing who may have experienced this dynamic. This can be useful for individuals seeking to understand the impact of early family dynamics on their current emotional well-being.
You can take this test here. Follow all of the steps to receive your results.
References: Mika, P., Bergner, R. M., & Baum, M. C.(1987). The development of a scale for the assessment of parentification. Family Therapy, 14. 229-235.