How long does this quiz take?

This quiz takes about 5-10 minutes to complete.

Are my responses private?

Yes, all answers are anonymized and confidential.

Can I take this test more than once?

Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Will this quiz diagnose childhood trauma?

No. This quiz is not diagnostic, but it can help you recognize patterns linked to early role reversal experiences.

Can my results help me understand my adult relationships better?

Yes. Many people find that recognizing early responsibility patterns clarifies current struggles with boundaries, closeness, or self-care.

This quiz helps you explore whether you were pushed into adult emotional or caregiving roles too early in life—and how that may still shape you today.

Parentification Scale

Understand how early responsibility may have shaped your emotional world.

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | Last Updated: December 22, 2025

Reviewed by Jourdan Travers, LCSW

Some children grow up being asked to carry responsibilities that exceed their emotional or developmental capacity. This experience—often subtle and normalized within families—can quietly shape how a person relates to responsibility, boundaries, and emotional closeness later in life.

The Childhood Role Reversal Test explores both emotional and practical forms of early responsibility-taking, such as being relied on for emotional support, conflict mediation, or caregiving tasks. While these behaviors may look like maturity on the surface, over time they can contribute to chronic self-sacrifice, guilt, or emotional distance in adulthood.

If you find yourself struggling with over-responsibility or difficulty relaxing emotional control, you may also find insight from our Relationship Control Scale or the Self-Care Inventory, which explore related interpersonal and emotional patterns.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this quiz take?: This quiz takes about 5-10 minutes to complete.
Are my responses private?: Yes, all Parentification Scale answers are anonymized and confidential.
Can I take this test more than once?: Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your Parentification Scale results may have changed.
Will this quiz diagnose childhood trauma?: No. This quiz is not diagnostic, but it can help you recognize patterns linked to early role reversal experiences.
Can my results help me understand my adult relationships better?: Yes. Many people find that recognizing early responsibility patterns clarifies current struggles with boundaries, closeness, or self-care.

Childhood Role Reversal Test: Take The Quiz

Step 1: Give Your Ratings Below

For each statement, indicate how often this occurred during your childhood on a scale of 1 (Never) to 5 (Always). For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

1. I regularly took care of my younger siblings.

2. When my parents were away, I became the primary caretaker for my siblings.

3. My siblings came to me—not our parents—for advice or guidance.

4. I helped bathe my siblings when they were younger.

5. I took responsibility for fixing or managing my siblings’ problems.

6. I made sure my siblings were dressed or ready for the day.

7. I was expected to discipline my siblings even when adults were present.

8. I mediated disputes between my siblings.

9. I set rules or expectations for my siblings.

10. I decided bedtime routines for my siblings.

11. I provided emotional reassurance or comfort to my siblings.

12. My siblings confided in me about conflicts with our parents.

13. I was asked for my opinion when adults were deciding how to handle my siblings’ behavior.

14. One or both parents confided in me about deeply personal matters that felt inappropriate for my age.

15. I was made aware of my parents’ financial worries or money problems.

16. My mother relied on me for emotional support during stressful times.

17. My father relied on me for emotional support during stressful times.

18. One parent talked to me about problems they were having with the other parent.

19. During parental conflicts, I felt pressure to side with one of them.

20. I was consulted about major family decisions instead of another adult.

21. I had noticeable influence over important adult choices in my household.

22. I often acted as the intermediary when my parents were in conflict.

23. I felt responsible for comforting my parents when they were upset.

24. When a parent was ill, I took on caregiving responsibilities.

25. Adults in my family sought my advice on matters meant for grown-ups.

26. I tried to calm tensions or restore harmony between my parents.

27. I felt more like an adult than a child in my household growing up.

Step 2: Enter Your Demographics

Provide your age, gender, region, and first name for a detailed report comparing your results to others.

What is your age?

What is your gender?

What region of the world do you live in?

What is your first name?

Step 3: Submit Your Parentification Scale Answers

After completing all questions, click below to send your responses to Mark Travers, Ph.D. All answers are anonymized and confidential.

References

Mika, P., Bergner, R. M., & Baum, M. C. (1987). The development of a scale for the assessment of parentification. Family Therapy, 14, 229–235.

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.