How long does this quiz take?

Most people complete this quiz in about 3-5 minutes.

Are my responses private?

Yes, all answers are anonymized and confidential.

Can I take this test more than once?

Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Will this quiz diagnose problems in my relationship?

No. This quiz is meant to offer insight and reflection, not a diagnosis.

Can my results help improve intimacy?

Yes. Understanding your satisfaction patterns can help guide conversations or personal growth.

Explore how emotionally and physically fulfilled you feel in your romantic relationship with this research-inspired sexual satisfaction test.

Sexual Satisfaction Index

A deeper look at intimacy, desire, and connection.

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | Last Updated: December 20, 2025

Reviewed by Jourdan Travers, LCSW

Sexual fulfillment plays a powerful role in relationship happiness, emotional closeness, and long-term satisfaction. Feeling connected, desired, and comfortable expressing needs often strengthens bonds beyond the bedroom.

This assessment explores key dimensions of sexual fulfillment such as affection, communication, pleasure, and emotional safety. Rather than focusing on performance, it highlights how satisfied and connected you feel overall.

If intimacy concerns connect to broader relationship patterns, you may also find value in the Relationship Satisfaction Scale or the Fear of Intimacy Scale.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this quiz take?: Most people complete this quiz in about 3-5 minutes.
Are my responses private?: Yes, all Sexual Satisfaction Index answers are anonymized and confidential.
Can I take this test more than once?: Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your Sexual Satisfaction Index results may have changed.
Will this quiz diagnose problems in my relationship?: No. This quiz is meant to offer insight and reflection, not a diagnosis.
Can my results help improve intimacy?: Yes. Understanding your satisfaction patterns can help guide conversations or personal growth.

Sexual Fulfillment & Intimacy Scale: Take The Test

Step 1: Rate Your Sexual Fulfillment

For each statement, indicate how much you agree on a scale of 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree). For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

1. Overall, I feel fulfilled by my sexual relationship.

2. I feel comfortable expressing my desires to my partner.

3. My partner is receptive to feedback about intimacy.

4. Sexual closeness strengthens my emotional bond with my partner.

5. I feel content with the level of physical affection in my relationship.

6. My partner and I maintain a sense of romance or playful attraction.

7. The lead-up to sexual intimacy feels satisfying and unhurried.

8. I feel wanted based on how often my partner initiates intimacy.

9. I rarely feel dismissed or unwanted in a sexual context.

10. Our intimate experiences feel varied and engaging.

11. My partner is emotionally attentive during sexual moments.

12. Sexual experiences typically meet my physical pleasure needs.

13. My partner and I have a shared understanding of what a satisfying sex life looks like for both of us.

Step 2: Enter Your Demographics

Provide your age, gender, region, and first name for a detailed report comparing your results to others.

What is your age?

What is your gender?

What region of the world do you live in?

What is your first name?

Step 3: Submit Your Sexual Satisfaction Index Answers

After completing all questions, click below to send your responses to Mark Travers, Ph.D. All answers are anonymized and confidential.

References

Leth-Nissen, A. B., Fentz, H. N., Wellnitz, K. B., & Trillingsgaard, T. L. (2024). Development and validation of the Assessment Inventory on Relationship Risks and Resources (AIRR). Family Relations, 1–20.

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.