How long does this quiz take?

It takes about 1-2 minutes to complete.

Are my responses private?

Yes, all answers are anonymized and confidential.

Can I take this test more than once?

Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Will this quiz tell me if I am entitled in my relationship?

Yes, this quiz will measure your sense of entitlement in your relationship and compare your score to others.

Can my results help improve my relationship?

Understanding your level of entitlement can help you identify areas for growth and improve communication with your partner.

Assess your relationship dynamics with the Sense of Relational Entitlement Scale.

Sense of Relational Entitlement Scale

Could an entitlement-complex be ruining your relationship? Take this test to find out.

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | Last Updated: February 16, 2026

Reviewed for clinical accuracy by Jourdan Travers, LCSW

The Sense of Relational Entitlement Scale is a psychological instrument designed to assess the level of entitlement within romantic relationships. Entitlement can manifest as the belief that one deserves special treatment or that their needs should automatically take precedence, often leading to conflict and dissatisfaction. This test, adapted from the original version, helps individuals identify these patterns to foster healthier dynamics. For further insight into potential underlying personality traits or warning signs, consider taking our Narcissism Scale or the Relationship Red Flag Test.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this quiz take?: It takes about 1-2 minutes to complete.
Are my responses private?: Yes, all Sense of Relational Entitlement Scale answers are anonymized and confidential.
Can I take this test more than once?: Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your Sense of Relational Entitlement Scale results may have changed.
Will this quiz tell me if I am entitled in my relationship?: Yes, this quiz will measure your sense of entitlement in your relationship and compare your score to others.
Can my results help improve my relationship?: Understanding your level of entitlement can help you identify areas for growth and improve communication with your partner.

Sense of Relational Entitlement Scale: Take The 8-Item Test

Step 1: Rate Your Sense of Relational Entitlement

For each statement, indicate how much you agree on a scale of 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree). For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

1. When my partner makes me angry, I sometimes regret the fact that I don’t have a different partner.

2. I spend a lot of time thinking about my partner’s weaknesses.

3. When my partner hurts me, I’m immediately filled with a sense of distrust.

4. Sometimes I have a lot of criticism toward my partner.

5. When my partner frustrates me, I get very angry.

6. When I am frustrated by my partner, I feel I do not deserve it.

7. When my partner frustrates me, I sometimes think of ending the relationship.

8. Sometimes I’m angrier with my partner than with other people.

Step 2: Enter Your Demographics

Provide your age, gender, region, and first name for a detailed report comparing your results to others.

What is your age?

What is your gender?

What region of the world do you live in?

What is your first name?

Step 3: Submit Your Sense of Relational Entitlement Scale Answers

After completing all questions, click below to send your responses to Mark Travers, Ph.D. All answers are anonymized and confidential.

References

Tolmacz, R., Lev-Ari, L., & Bachner-Melman, R. (2021). Refining the Assessment of Entitlement in Romantic Relationships: The Sense of Relational Entitlement Scale-Revised (SRE-R). Frontiers in Psychology, 12. e744618. doi:10.3389/fpsyg.2021.744618

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.