How long does this quiz take?

It takes about three minutes to complete.

Are my responses private?

Yes, all answers are anonymized and confidential.

Can I take this test more than once?

Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Will this quiz tell me if I pick toxic partners?

No, it measures how fast you fall in love. However, high scores sometimes correlate with overlooking red flags in the early stages of dating.

Can my results help me improve my dating life?

Yes, by identifying a tendency to rush, you can consciously practice pacing to ensure you get to know a partner's true character.

Understand your romantic speed and whether you tend to dive into deep emotional waters too quickly.

Emotional Promiscuity Scale

Is it love at first sight, or a pattern of rapid attachment?

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | Last Updated: December 17, 2025

Reviewed by Jourdan Travers, LCSW

Do you find yourself falling head over heels before you’ve even finished the first date? While the rush of a new connection is exhilarating, a pattern of falling in love very quickly and frequently—sometimes known as emophilia—can often lead to overlooking red flags.

This quiz helps you identify if your romantic threshold is lower than average, potentially drawing you toward high-intensity but unstable partnerships.

People who score high in rapid romantic attachment often find themselves in a cycle of "jumping" into commitments, which may be linked to other traits like those found in the Propensity Towards Infidelity Scale. By recognizing these habits, you can learn to pace yourself and choose partners based on compatibility rather than just the initial spark.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this quiz take?: It takes about three minutes to complete.
Are my responses private?: Yes, all Emotional Promiscuity Scale answers are anonymized and confidential.
Can I take this test more than once?: Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your Emotional Promiscuity Scale results may have changed.
Will this quiz tell me if I pick toxic partners?: No, it measures how fast you fall in love. However, high scores sometimes correlate with overlooking red flags in the early stages of dating.
Can my results help me improve my dating life?: Yes, by identifying a tendency to rush, you can consciously practice pacing to ensure you get to know a partner's true character.

Fast Romance Quiz: Take The Test

Step 1: Rate Your Romantic Speed

For each statement, indicate how much you agree on a scale of 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree). For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

1. Falling in love is a frequent occurrence in my life.

2. I have a habit of rushing into new relationships.

3. Over the course of my life, I have romantically loved more people than I can count on one hand.

4. I tend to develop romantic feelings very easily.

5. It takes a very short amount of time for me to feel in love.

6. I experience immediate romantic sparks with new people.

7. I am captivated by the initial rush of falling for someone.

8. I would describe myself as someone who falls in love often.

9. I often find myself feeling romantic toward multiple people simultaneously.

10. I have experienced being in love with more than one person at once.

11. I often find myself planning a future with someone I have only just met.

Step 2: Enter Your Demographics

Provide your age, gender, region, and first name for a detailed report comparing your results to others.

What is your age?

What is your gender?

What region of the world do you live in?

What is your first name?

Step 3: Submit Your Emotional Promiscuity Scale Answers

After completing all questions, click below to send your responses to Mark Travers, Ph.D. All answers are anonymized and confidential.

References

Jones, D. N. (2011). The Emotional Promiscuity Scale. In T.D. Fisher, C.M. Davis, W.L. Yarber, & S.L. Davis (Eds.), Handbook of Sexuality-Related Measures (3rd ed., pp. 226–227). New York, NY: Routledge.

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.