Sexual Attitudes Quiz: Explore Your Intimacy Style

Decode your beliefs about physical connection, commitment, and the emotional role of sex in your life.

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | Last Updated: March 19, 2026

The Sexual Attitudes Quiz is designed to help you understand how you perceive the role of physical connection in your life. By exploring your views on topics like commitment and intimacy, you can gain a clearer picture of your "intimacy blueprint." Understanding these internal benchmarks is important for navigating modern dating and long-term partnerships.

You may also find it helpful to take our Relationship Satisfaction Scale or our Love Language Scale to see how these personality facets intersect.

This assessment looks at four distinct dimensions of sexual attitudes: the degree of permissiveness you feel comfortable with, your views on shared responsibility, the depth of emotional communion you seek, and how much you view sex through a physical or instrumental lens. Whether you are currently in a partnership or single, this self-assessment offers a judgment-free space to explore your truths.

Take The Brief Sexual Attitudes Scale

For each statement, indicate how much you agree. For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

1. Being responsible about birth control is a fundamental part of a healthy sex life.

2. I believe women should take an active and equal role in managing birth control.

3. I believe men should take an active and equal role in managing birth control.

4. For me, sex represents the most profound level of communication possible between people.

5. I feel that a physical bond between two people in love is the peak of human interaction.

6. At its most powerful, sex feels like a spiritual merging of two individuals.

7. I consider sex to be one of the most vital components of a full life.

8. My experiences with sex are usually very intense and deeply moving.

9. I find sex is most satisfying when I can let go and focus entirely on my own sensations.

10. I sometimes view sex as the act of taking physical pleasure from a partner.

11. To me, the primary goal of any sexual encounter is personal enjoyment.

12. I tend to view sex as a mostly physical or biological activity.

13. I see sex as a basic bodily necessity, similar to the need for food or sleep.

14. I don't feel that a deep commitment is a prerequisite for having a sexual encounter.

15. I believe that casual sexual experiences are perfectly acceptable.

16. Having a variety of different sexual partners is something I find appealing.

17. I think that brief, one-time sexual encounters can be a positive experience.

18. I am open to the idea of having sexual relationships with multiple people simultaneously.

19. I view sex as a mutual exchange of pleasure that is fine as long as there is consent.

20. In my opinion, the most enjoyable sex comes without any emotional obligations.

21. I think society would be better off if people were more open and free with their sexuality.

22. It is possible for me to enjoy a physical connection with someone even if I don't like them personally.

23. I believe it is healthy for sex to sometimes serve as just a physical release.

24. I believe that the full meaning of sex can only be realized within the context of a long-term, exclusive commitment like marriage or a life partnership.

Now, enter your demographics to see how you stack up against others.

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References

Inspired by work by Hendrick, C., Hendrick, S., & Reich, D. A. (2006). The Brief Sexual Attitudes Scale. The Journal of Sex Research, 43(1), 76-86.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this scale take?
It takes a few minutes to complete.

Are my responses private?
Yes, all responses are anonymized and confidential.

Can I take this test more than once?
Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for entertainment purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.

Sexual Attitudes Quiz: Explore Your Intimacy Style

Take The Brief Sexual Attitudes Scale

Now, enter your demographics to see how you stack up against others.

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Frequently Asked Questions

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