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Why December Kills Your Motivation And Why You Shouldn't Fight It

December's mix of exhaustion, overstimulation, and reward depletion makes losing momentum almost inevitable.


Mark Travers, Ph.D.

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | December 30, 2025

If you feel like your motivation fades every December, you aren't imagining it. Even people who start the year highly driven often find themselves mentally exhausted, less focused and strangely indifferent to goals that mattered to them deeply at the beginning of the year.

From a psychological perspective, this end-of-year slump doesn't necessarily reflect a personal failure or lack of discipline. It reflects how the brain responds to prolonged cognitive effort, emotional load and shifting reward signals over time. December creates a perfect storm for motivational decline, because it combines mental fatigue, a disenchantment from your own goals and major changes in how the brain processes rewards.

And understanding why this happens is taking the first step toward fixing it. Here are four major reasons why your motivation crashes in December.

1. The Year's Mental Fatigue Accumulates In December

Motivation relies heavily on cognitive resources such as attention, working memory and self-regulation and each of these resources is finite. This means that after a prolonged period of usage, they require downtime in order to replenish. When they are taxed continuously without sufficient recovery, mental fatigue is bound to set in.

Research published in Brain Research Reviews shows that prolonged cognitive effort leads to measurable declines in executive functioning, including reduced persistence, impaired decision-making and diminished goal-directed behavior. In other words, mental fatigue is more than just tiredness. It actively changes how we experience and therefore, expend effort, which makes tasks seem more demanding than they objectively are.

Mental effort increases the subjective cost of exertion, which makes it harder to stay motivated enough to continue working toward goals. By December, many people have been operating under near-constant cognitive load for months. Deadlines, responsibilities, decision fatigue and chronic stress quietly accumulate over the working year. And this is why even small tasks feel harder at the end of the year, because your brain is conserving resources.

2. Rewards Don't Feel As Rewarding In December

Motivation is, among other things, also shaped by how strongly the brain anticipates reward. Dopamine plays a key role in signaling whether any effort feels worthwhile. Meaning that when rewards are distant, abstract or delayed, motivation drops.

A 2023 study published in Frontiers in Neuroscience on reward processing shows that repeated effort without sufficient reward feedback reduces reward sensitivity, making it harder to feel energized by progress alone. This is particularly relevant in December, where a lot of the goals you set are long-term and yet to be resolved.

Additionally, due to the month's reflective nature, your focus on what didn't get done may be more pronounced. For example, your career goals may not be fully realized, or personal changes may still feel incomplete. Year-end reflection can unintentionally highlight what hasn't happened yet.

In other words, when expected rewards feel uncertain or postponed, the motivational system downshifts. The brain begins to prioritize short-term comfort over long-term effort.

This is why people often gravitate toward passive activities in December, even if they are normally driven. The motivational system is not broken. It is responding rationally to perceived reward scarcity.

3. You Disengage From Your Goals In December

One of the most misunderstood aspects of motivation loss is goal disengagement. Psychologists have found that disengaging from goals that feel unattainable or overly costly is not inherently maladaptive. In fact, it can protect mental health.

This is because adaptive goal disengagement helps reduce stress, depressive symptoms and emotional exhaustion when goals become too demanding relative to available resources. At the end of the year, many people unconsciously disengage from goals as a form of self-preservation.

And that's because December often forces an implicit evaluation. People feel compelled to ask themselves introspective questions like, "Do I have the energy to keep pushing right now?" And when the answer is "no," motivation plummets. This isn't a result of a lack of ambition, but because their psychological system is recalibrating.

The problem arises when disengagement feels confusing or shame-inducing. Without understanding the underlying mechanism, people interpret reduced motivation as laziness or failure, which further undermines confidence and future goal engagement.

4. Seasonal Changes Make Work Feel Harder In December

Reduced daylight exposure has been linked to changes in mood, energy levels and cognitive functioning. And for the parts of the world where the month of December and the season of winter coincide, this turns into the "December blues." Research on seasonal affective patterns suggests that lower light exposure can affect circadian rhythms and neurotransmitter systems involved in alertness and motivation.

Even in individuals without seasonal affective disorder, shorter days are associated with increased fatigue and reduced vigor. This biological shift compounds existing mental fatigue and lowers the baseline energy available for sustained effort.

At the same time, December brings increased emotional labor. Social obligations, family dynamics, financial pressures and expectations to feel festive all place additional demands on emotional regulation systems. Emotional labor requires cognitive control, and cognitive control draws from the same limited pool that motivation depends on.

With the pool running dangerously low, the brain allots energy and motivation only to tasks that feel extremely urgent and important. And so, everything else feels like a burden.

Why Willpower Alone Does Not Fix The December Slump

Many people respond to December motivation loss by trying to push harder. This often backfires. Effortful control is onlt effective when demands are proportional to available resources.

But when your resources are depleted, forcing persistence increases fatigue and emotional strain rather than restoring motivation. This is why productivity strategies that work in March often fail in December, because the psychological context has completely changed.

So, the solution cannot be to add more pressure; instead, it lies in strategic restoration.Here are a few evidence-based strategies that help motivation recover naturally:

  1. Shift from outcome-based goals to process-based goals. Focusing on manageable actions rather than distant outcomes reduces cognitive load and restores a sense of agency. Small wins re-engage reward systems more effectively than abstract future success.
  2. Deliberately reduce decision fatigue. Simplifying routines, limiting unnecessary choices and automating low-stakes decisions preserves mental energy for meaningful tasks.
  3. Build in real recovery. Recovery is not passive distraction. It involves activities that allow cognitive and emotional systems to downshift, such as restorative sleep, low-demand social connection and time away from constant evaluation.
  4. Normalize temporary disengagement. Disengaging from certain goals can free resources for re-engagement later. Letting some goals rest does not mean abandoning them.
  5. Recalibrate expectations. December is not an ideal month for peak performance. Treating it as a consolidation phase rather than a productivity test aligns better with how the brain actually functions under cumulative load.

Motivation is not a fixed trait. It is an emergent state that reflects how safe, resource-stocked and rewarded the brain feels. When mental fatigue is acknowledged, rewards are made tangible and pressure is reduced; in turn, motivation tends to return on its own.

When you don't acknowledge the December crash, you end up proscratinating. Take the science-backed General Proscrastination Scale to know where you stand.

Does the gentle slow-down of a quiet December energize you or drain you? Take the Guardian Animal Test to know if seasonal rhythms match with your guardian animal archetype.

A similar version of this article can also be found on Forbes.com, here.

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