
Anxious Attachment Scale
Do you lie awake at night worrying about being abandoned by your partner? Take this test to find out if you have an 'anxious attachment style.'
By Mark Travers, Ph.D.
November 25, 2024

By Mark Travers, Ph.D.
November 25, 2024
Mark Travers, Ph.D., is the lead psychologist at Awake Therapy, responsible for new client intake and placement. Mark received his B.A. in psychology, magna cum laude, from Cornell University and his M.A. and Ph.D. from the University of Colorado Boulder. His academic research has been published in leading psychology journals and has been featured in The New York Times and The New Yorker, among other popular publications. He is a regular contributor for Forbes and Psychology Today, where he writes about psycho-educational topics such as happiness, relationships, personality, and life meaning. Click here to schedule an initial consultation with Mark or another member of the Awake Therapy team. Or, you can drop him a note here.
Romantic attachment is the emotional bond individuals form with their romantic partners, rooted in early life experiences with caregivers and shaped by patterns of seeking closeness, comfort and security. An anxious attachment style develops when caregivers are inconsistent or unpredictable, leading to a fear of abandonment and a constant need for reassurance in adult relationships.
This attachment style can affect relationships by creating dependency, heightened sensitivity to perceived rejection, and difficulty trusting a partner's commitment. This often results in clingy or overly preoccupied behavior, both of which may strain the relationship.
The Revised Experiences in Close Relationships (ECR-R) self-report measure is a highly reliable tool for assessing romantic attachment styles—including anxious attachment. Its psychometric properties, such as strong test-retest reliability and high validity, make it a dependable method to measure attachment anxiety.
You can take this test here. Please follow all of the steps to receive your results.
References: Wei, M., Russell, D. W., Mallinckrodt, B., & Vogel, D. L. (2007). The experiences in close relationship scale (ECR)-short form: Reliability, validity, and factor structure. Journal of Personality Assessment, 88(2), 187–204.