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Tasteful Humor Test: How Your Sense of Humor Builds Connection

Tasteful Humor Test: How Your Sense of Humor Builds Connection

Learn how laughter shapes your relationships.

Some people use humor to entertain, others to cope—but affiliative humor is about something deeper: connection. This scale explores how often you use lighthearted jokes, playful storytelling, and shared laughter to strengthen bonds with others.

People who score high in affiliative humor often create social ease, defuse tension, and help groups feel more connected. Understanding this style can offer insight into how you relate to friends, family, and romantic partners, especially in emotionally meaningful moments.

If you’re interested in how humor intersects with emotional closeness, you may also want to explore our Relationship Satisfaction Scale or our Authenticity in Relationships Scale.

Take The Affiliative Humor Style Scale

For each statement, indicate how much you agree. For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

Now, enter your demographics to see how you stack up against others.

Source

Martin, R. A., Puhlik-Doris, P., Larsen, G., Gray, J., & Weir, K. (2003). Individual differences in uses of humor and their relation to psychological well-being. Journal of Research in Personality, 37, 48–75.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this scale take?
It takes a few minutes to complete.

Are my responses private?
Yes, all responses are anonymized and confidential.

Can I take this test more than once?
Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for entertainment purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.