How long does this quiz take?

It takes about 2-3 minutes to complete.

Are my responses private?

Yes, all answers are anonymized and confidential.

Can I take this test more than once?

Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your results may have changed.

Will this quiz tell me if I will cheat?

No test can predict the future. This scale measures your psychological susceptibility to infidelity in specific contexts, helping you understand your potential risk factors.

Can my results help my relationship?

Yes. Understanding your triggers and vulnerabilities can be a powerful first step in discussing boundaries and needs with your partner or a therapist.

Assess your likelihood of engaging in infidelity with this scientifically validated scale.

Propensity Towards Infidelity Scale

Are you at risk of cheating? Take the test.

By Mark Travers, Ph.D. | Last Updated: December 25, 2025

Reviewed for clinical accuracy by Jourdan Travers, LCSW

The Propensity Towards Infidelity Scale is a psychological instrument designed to measure an individual's susceptibility to engaging in extramarital affairs. Developed by researchers Carmen Lișman and Andrei Holman in 2021, this scale moves beyond simple yes-or-no questions to explore the specific contexts and motivations that might lead someone to stray. By examining factors such as emotional bonding, opportunity, and relationship dissatisfaction, the test provides a nuanced view of fidelity risks.

Understanding your own propensity for infidelity can be a crucial step in maintaining a healthy, long-term relationship. It is not an accusation, but rather a tool for self-awareness. If you find that certain situations—like a partner's long-term absence or a close connection with a colleague—trigger a higher likelihood of cheating, you can proactively address these vulnerabilities. You might also find it helpful to explore related assessments, such as our Financial Infidelity Scale, to see how trust operates in other areas of your partnership.

This 10-item assessment asks you to rate your agreement with various scenarios and statements. While no test can predict the future with certainty, the results can offer valuable insights for personal reflection or discussions with a therapist. For a broader look at your relationship dynamics, consider taking the Relationship Satisfaction Scale alongside this one.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does this quiz take?: It takes about 2-3 minutes to complete.
Are my responses private?: Yes, all Propensity Towards Infidelity Scale answers are anonymized and confidential.
Can I take this test more than once?: Yes, you can retake the test any time to see how your Propensity Towards Infidelity Scale results may have changed.
Will this quiz tell me if I will cheat?: No test can predict the future. This scale measures your psychological susceptibility to infidelity in specific contexts, helping you understand your potential risk factors.
Can my results help my relationship?: Yes. Understanding your triggers and vulnerabilities can be a powerful first step in discussing boundaries and needs with your partner or a therapist.

Propensity Towards Infidelity Scale: Take The 10-Item Test

Step 1: Rate Your Propensity Towards Infidelity

For each statement, indicate how much you agree on a scale of 1 (Strongly Disagree) to 5 (Strongly Agree). For best results, answer honestly and trust your first instinct.

1. If my spouse would be unfaithful, it would seem natural to me to have an extramarital relationship.

2. Flirting with another person would make me feel wanted.

3. The lack of sexual relations with my spouse would be a reason for me to have an extramarital relationship.

4. It is plausible for me to have a relationship with someone else than my spouse if I feel emotionally bonded to him/her.

5. My spouse’s long-term absence would make me engage in relationships with other people.

6. Colleagues of the opposite sex represent a potential opportunity for an extramarital affair.

7. If I knew that my spouse would never find out, I could have an extramarital affair.

8. There are certain contexts in which it would be plausible to have an extramarital affair.

9. My spouse’s close relationship with a colleague of the opposite sex would make it likely for me to engage in a relationship with someone else.

10. The fact that other married friends have had extramarital relationships makes me think that it can happen to me.

Step 2: Enter Your Demographics

Provide your age, gender, region, and first name for a detailed report comparing your results to others.

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What is your gender?

What region of the world do you live in?

What is your first name?

Step 3: Submit Your Propensity Towards Infidelity Scale Answers

After completing all questions, click below to send your responses to Mark Travers, Ph.D. All answers are anonymized and confidential.

References

Lișman, C. G., & Holman, A. C. (2021). Cheating under the circumstances in marital relationships: The development and examination of the propensity towards infidelity scale. Social Sciences, 10(10), 392.

Disclaimer

This scale is designed for educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.